Talking about sex can be so challenging for us, especially during the time that we are in the middle of a whirlwind of schlongs, balls, dream and, unfortunately, mambos of pressure that we put on ourselves to be ideal sex partners - soever that means! There are many reasons as to why we may not advocate for what we wish. So often, we may not even be in touch with our own true wants; we likely show up and do what we have always done. Perhaps we strive to perform soever assumptions we have absorbed from porn or from uninformed peers. Or, perhaps we choose to “go with the flow” instead of steering towards our own fulfillment. Maybe we feel unworthy of getting what we wish. Whatsoever the cause of our own personal silence, the vast almost any of us have at no time been encouraged to talk openly about our realities and logistics of real sex - the kind of sex that we co-create in real time with one more being. When we start opening up to our partners about what we like, what we wish, and what we may not like, we refine our connections and throttle the passion and authenticity in our sex. As authenticity increases, so does fun.
Play this game with a paramour in a structured way, or simply utilize those cues to practice bringing your crave into a greater quantity fully embodied experience. U can direct your paramour using words, movements, sounds and gestures. Our mother language is the body, so sometimes, even using your hand to guide him to where u wish to be touched can be a profound revelation to your partner. The important feature of this practice is to take turns directing the flow of sex in order to acquire it just right for yourself and your buddy.
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